As a kid, I played make believe a lot. But it often involved people that didn’t know they were playing. What I mean is, I would watch people and create scenarios of who they really were and what they were doing. For instance, if I saw a man in a hat and long jacket, I would assume he was a jewel thief. I would follow him around the mall so I could catch him in the act.
I never caught a crook, but I did become tuned into body language. I even took an on-line course on body language. It wasn’t so much a course as it was a blog. But, it was pretty fascinating. Here are a few things I deduced which you might want to think about.
- Limp – a) afraid of you, b) don’t like you or c) don’t like themselves;
- Firm – a) confident, b) friendly, glad to see/meet you c) may even think you’re hot;
- Painful – a) domineering, b) desire to destroy you, or c) overcompensating for something.
- firm – love and affection;
- groping – pervert;
- loose – same as limp handshake, or your deodorant isn’t working.
The Eye Contact :
- Normal Human– Makes appropriate amount of eye contact;
- Serial Killer – Never looks away or blinks;
- Liar – won’t make eye contact at all;
- Pervert – looks at you – but not in the eye;
- And the most confusing one: rapid blinking often combined with open mouth emitting no sound, which means they have an eyelash in their eye.
These are just the basics. The most important things to be wary of when people watching are: fidgety people ready to pick your pocket; people clutching their stomach ready to puke; and the random naked person.